Your First Step in Getting What You Want

We learn at a very young age that you don’t always get what you want. You remember your parents saying this over and over again when there would be a toy, game, tv show etc. that you wanted or wanted to watch. There is even a song. What they don’t tell you as you grow up is you CAN get what you want IF you know how to ask for it!

When you choose to envelop the Law of Attraction, learn how to use it and you start seeing results, you will get better at asking for what you want in the right way. You will start feeling the difference around you, in your energy and you whole being. You’ll notice that people around you are also reacting differently towards you.

Think about how you feel when you are around someone who is upbeat and positive as opposed to someone who is constantly down and depressed. Your energy get sucked from you when you are around the depressing person, it’s like they sap you of every ounce of energy you have and you have no desire to do anything.

When you are around someone who is upbeat and happy you are full of energy, they are sharing their energy, their positive energy flows through everyone around them and you want more, you crave it! You can’t wait to be around that person again. That is what you need to do, you need to radiate positive energy, let it flow into everyone around you, into the universe and just see what happens!!!

The First step in getting what you want, is giving others what they want, and most times it’s exactly what you radiate, positive energy, happiness and joy!! Who doesn’t enjoy being happy 🙂

Attracting What You Want Quickly

If the Law of Attraction just isn’t working quickly enough for you here are some steps you can take to speed up the process.

Focus – Learning to focus on your desires the correct way can help you in getting what you desire more quickly. Everyday life can sometimes get in the way of being able to focus properly. Worry is a big road block, because the more you worry the more you are attracting the things you don’t want to happen. Give yourself a small amount of time each day to worry (though you know worrying solves nothing 😉 ) and the rest of the time focus completely on the positives to bring that positive energy to you!

Gratitude – Being grateful is just as important as what you are focusing on, as being positive. Be thankful for what you have, for where you are, for your family and friends. Some days, very difficult days, it’s hard to find the good, but there are things to be grateful for you just might have to look a little harder or closer at your life and you will see, you probably have a lot more to be thankful for than you realize.

Try Something New – Find as many things as you can which stimulate you.  New activities bring you and your own energy to wider and greater possibilities.  When you move through your everyday activities you are moving through the same old way of thinking.  Have you ever noticed that entering your work place can immediately get you to think in a particular way?

As you shift your awareness to what is new and joyful you expand.  Your breathing changes your mind changes and your attraction moves into a higher gear.  The results then are faster and more explosive.

The mind and body are like a battery, the more you feed it higher thoughts and feeling the stronger and more powerful it will be.  Are you happy with the way your life is presently going?  What are you willing to do to fully understand the law of attraction?

Become an Expert in The Law of Attraction

For years we have thought that the only way to get anything in life was to work hard, put in the time and the years at a job we hate and eventually it would pay off, well sure you could do that OR you could use The Law of Attraction and get what you want much quicker and easier!

Why believe me? Because I did it! I went from working at job after job that I hated, many of which closed their doors without notice and I was then stuck without an income for my family! I decided one day that I was NOT going to do it anymore, I was going to find something to do where I was the boss, making the decisions and would make much more money than I ever could working for someone else.

I told my wife this and she scoffed, she said it couldn’t be done, her father worked for 42 years, hard work, outdoors to get to where he was and to get what he had and that was the only way to do it. I told her well too bad, I am going to do it! She wasn’t too pleased, thought it was a get rich quick scheme or something, but within 6 months I was able to quit my job, making more money than we had ever imagined and living life to the fullest!

We could just pick up and go when we wanted, didn’t have anyone to answer to and were BOTH able to be at the kids school functions together, and we made every single one!! It has been almost 12 years since I made that decision and we are still working for ourselves and are still making good money and will continue to do so as long as we wish!

THAT is The Law of Attraction!!! IF you see it, believe it and want it bad enough it WILL happen! You have to be totally and completely ready for it, you have to want it more than you have ever wanted anything before. You have to see yourself there, see yourself doing what you want to do, being who you want to be, having what you want to have and you WILL get it!!

If you can do that you will become an Expert! If you can want it bad enough, believe in yourself and your desires sooo much that it’s all you think about all you see, you WILL get it!

Don’t Wait-Go Get It!

Most people are the sit and wait type. When it is meant to be it will happen. Why? Why wait when you can do something about it NOW and get what you want without waiting on others to give it to you. It’s the old TV remote dilemma, hunting around forever for the remote because your favorite show is on and you need to change the channel, well, if you would just walk over to the tv and change it manually, you know like we use to have to do, you would be watching your favorite show while you were looking for the remote.

It is the same when it comes to a new relationship, everything is ‘perfect’ in the beginning, he is trying to win you over, you both jump through hoops to make the other happy. Some men will tell their now wives, when asked “why don’t you bring me flowers anymore or candy or a card, just because”? and the man will usually answer “well, I don’t have to try anymore, I already got you”.

Really?? Isn’t the most important part of any relationship to keep it strong, to do for each other ALWAYS not just until…What if you lived your whole life with that mentality? Waiting for someone else to make you happy, to give you what you want, to give you that promotion, a better job, more money…
Try to understand this. If you have to wait for somebody else to give you what you need, you can wait forever and there’s a decent risk you will never get it.
If you give what you need to yourself and to the other, then you have it both ways: once because you gave it to yourself, and once because you will get back from the other what you gave him. You can have your pie and eat it!

Why does it work this way? Because by giving something, you are tuning yourself to the frequency of that which you give. Let’s say, for example, you need attention. Instead of examining the behavior, facial and verbal expressions of your partner, trying to detect whether he gives you enough attention, you can give attention to him! Ask him how he is feeling right now, how his day went, what he learned today, and if he met any interesting people. Show your genuine interest, and I bet he will be interested in you too. You give attention, and you will get attention in return!

You want love? Give love! You want advice? Give advice! You need an energy boost? Boost up someone else’s energy level and in doing so you will feel your own energy rising! You want people to listen to you? Then first listen carefully to someone else who needs to be heard. You want more friends? Then befriend others! You want more respect from your children? Respect them!

So, in order to get what you want, learn to give it first.

Instead of waiting for your significant other to give you love, why don’t you give love to him or her?
Instead of waiting for your children to respect you, why don’t you start by respecting them? Be an example.
Instead of dreaming of a wonderful job that satisfies your needs, try to be wonderful at your current job first!
Instead of wanting your friends to invest time and energy in your relationship, why don’t you give some extra time and energy to them?
Instead of waiting for peace and calm to come into your life, why don’t you create the silence and inner balance needed to feel the peace you long for?

It’s all a matter of energy vibrating. By giving what you want to others, you are tuning in to the vibrational energy of what it is you want. If you want love and you give it to others, you are in the energy of love already. Giving love makes you feel that love and thus you then attract more love into your life. Giving attention makes you feel the attention. Giving respect puts you in the energy vibration of respect and you will attract more respect towards yourself.

This works for anything you desire. You will not only get what you want by giving it, but you will also be much less dependent on others. You will feel the power of being in charge of your own life!

Law of Attraction-Starting Out

To start out you need to learn to control your thoughts, you must remember that negative thoughts produce as much energy as positive thoughts, and what you put out there is what you get back.

It’s hard to break old habits and it’s hard to stop negative thought, but you have to.  If you start believing that everything you want is just a thought away, it will be easier to transition. You must remember though, the energy of the universe doesn’t know what “I don’t want…” means, you have to be specific in what you DO want and erase all negative feeling and thoughts about what you fear.

You have to get rid of the ‘what if’s’ because they too are negative thought.  You must submerse yourself in positive feeling and thoughts. Think of it this way, when you carry negative thoughts and feelings around with you it’s like you are surrounded by a gray cloud, it isn’t hanging over your head it is surrounding your whole being.  By submersing yourself in positive thoughts and feelings, all of a sudden you are surrounded by a bright light, you and see and breathe and there is no heaviness.
Training your mind to concentrate on the positive instead of the negative is a necessary, but often difficult process. People are worriers. It’s a survival thing designed to help us remember and avoid the dangers of life. But being aware of our fears and letting them control our thoughts are two different things. Turning the negative fears into positive thoughts is the key.

Your thoughts are yours. They can be your faithful servants or your masters. Which ever you allow them to be. You have the control, you make your choice. You determine which course your thoughts take. Learning to control your thoughts can be done by learning to control your will. By mastering yourself. Phrases like “I am master of my self” can lead you in the right direction.

The Basis of the Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction states that every thought attracts things, people and circumstances. Negative attracts negative, positive, positive. If you constantly are putting yourself down, listening to others who put you down, questioning yourself, belittling yourself, saying that “these things” always “happen” to me or that you will never get out of a certain situation, well you know what? You are right, your thoughts, right at this very moment are dictating what you will or won’t attain in the near future.

There is evidence that suggests that we have known about the Law of Attraction for around 7000 years! That has to tell you something. Those who do, achieve! Anyone who has become anything, who has created wealth and good, positive things, people, situations in their lives have used the Law of Attraction. THAT is why they are who they are, and have gotten to the place they are at. NOT because they didn’t believe in themselves or doubted themselves or thought they couldn’t do something.  It is because they KNEW they COULD do it!

It was largely at the beginning of the 20th century that the general public started to become aware of this great law due to the diligence, fortitude, integrity and grace of writers such as James Allen (1864-1912), Napoleon Hill (1883-1970) and Charles Haanel (1866-1949). Wallace D. Wattles (1860 – 1911) was another pioneer of free thinking. In his great work “The Science of Getting Rich” Wattles states a great truth, “There is a thinking stuff from which all things are made, which, in its original state, permeates, penetrates, and fills the interspaces of the universe. A thought in this substance produces the thing that is imaged by the thought.” How revolutionary that statement was in 1910.

Haanel set out in a 24 part correspondence course, which is now condensed into one volume called “The Master Key System“, a complete guide to successfully using the Law Of Attraction! It was banned by the Church in 1933 due to its revelations. This is allegedly the book Bill Gates read before he created Microsoft! Napoleon Hill revealed Andrew Carnegie’s great Secret to the world – that thoughts create things – when he wrote “Think & Grow Rich” in 1937 (although it had taken him 25 years to complete). James Allen wrote his famous work in 1912 and in “As a Man Thinketh” he tells people that “mind is the master-weaver, both of the inner garment of character and the outer garment of circumstance, and that, as they may have hitherto woven in ignorance and pain they may now weave in enlightenment and happiness.”

However, although the teachings have been around for thousands of years and they have been readily and easily available to the general public for almost a century the great majority of people do not take the time to learn the workings of probably the most powerful physical law in the Universe. I think you owe it to yourself to delve deeper into this mysterious Universe and learn as much as you can about the laws that govern your life. When you truly understand the Law Of Attraction and begin to work with it for you personal advantage, I promise you, your life will change in fantastic, unexpected and unlimited ways. Begin now to utilise this gift and construct in your imagination the life you really want to live. Seek out ways to remove your own inner resistance and limiting beliefs.

Law of Attraction-Does it really work?

Napoleon Hill wrote in his famous book “Think and Grow Rich” a few decades ago, yet to this day not many people understand exactly what he meant.  Someone not familiar with the concept of manifestation, this may seem like a nonsense,  but to someone who wants to succeed it is a powerful statement and within it contains life’s most prized secret.

The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like.  Everything begins with a thought or idea and the Law of Attraction plays a big role in manifesting the thought or idea, then it is not far off to say that thought attracts others with similar thoughts and or ideas which in effect creates circumstances that are consistent with the Law of Attraction. Think it, believe it, attract it, receive it!

Scientists teach us that the whole universe is made of energy. Energy has frequencies. Thoughts are energy in its primitive stage. Thought energies radiate frequencies just as radio antennas radiate frequencies. The level of thought frequency determines the kind of physical manifestation and circumstance that we have; low thought frequencies correspond to the physical expression of similar frequencies while high thought frequencies correspond to things, people, or circumstance of similar frequencies.

The key to keep in mind is that thoughts are as real as any physical thing. You must be completely convinced as that it is so just as you are convinced that the earth is round. Hold your thoughts long enough and in time you’ll see them manifest in your reality.